question
My dad died on Wednesday from pancreatic cancer. He was 55. My brother and I are not close but we get along. I flew in to Arizona to go to the funeral home and the mortician (is that what they are called) said she could get what she needed from my brother for us to have a cremation over the phone. Did I have to fly to Arizona for this or could I have stayed home and phoned it in too? We are just having a cremation. I don't mean to be cold but we aren't having a wake or anything, I'm not going to see him, I'm just taking the ashes with me when they are done.
QUESTION
Is it the law I have to have an obituary?
ANSWER
Short answer, NO. But please, allow something to be noted somewhere that a life has been lived and that it is passed. If you don't want to put it in the newspaper for a fee, post it online somewhere for the sake of loved ones you may not even know of or remember. We touch more lives when we are alive then we realize.